Be A Happy Person
Update: OMG, too many people misunderstood this post. I am extremely happy due to I’m so lucky to be with my dearest hubby and lovely kiddies *alhamdulillah* >_< Please don’t be sorry to me.
My point is: Genuine happy comes from within. Your happiness both as an individual and as a married partner must come from within yourself 😀
Konniciwa mommies 😉
Subhanallah, I just received latest feedback from Darul Izzah official website, they’d update their “Thank You” webpage and LittleKittle is on the list! (even it was not my intention to be on the inscribe, I do it for my love to the orphanage kids).
I’m terribly miss them (those lovable kids at the orphanage house) and can’t wait to make their wish become reality: to provide a computer room for them >_<
Tips: How to be a happy person?
From my previous experience, every time I’m felt down, I would grab anyone (yes, even a stranger!) right next to me to go somewhere that makes them happy. Definitely this is awkward, but I am thankful to God it is ME.
Last time, I grabbed an old blind man behind the road in the middle of Kuala Lumpur hectic traffic and helped him (yes the King is not with me due to his outstation job, I am walking with the old blind man for half a mile while hugging my baby boy KiruaMi-cHan in my hand at the same time pregnant lil ReiHi-cHan (in my 3rd trimester) till he reached KL Sentral Monorail in safe and sound (and yep, we never own a family transportation till July 2007, and we used to walk as daily routine and used public transportation: Komuter!). The old man was so clueless with my act but he’s so grateful 😉
Update: I don’t exactly know why, but it’s just spontaneous, I’m grumpy with some issues after meeting (with authority that mentioned they’re helping people like Grameen Bank did *adopt their system*, oh please! Grameen Bank is the BEST in the WORLD to solve poverty, they’re not just in paper, they work it out. U’re cheating Malaysian poor people!) and tadaa, I’m out to find someone that I could help and tadaaa I’m RELIEVE from my sadness moment 😀 It’s like a magic. Trust me!
Alhamdulillah, just got this present from the King yesterday 😉
I do believe we cannot make another person happy. Yes, I’ve said that I am happy, but I have not said that the King a.k.a my hubby makes me happy.
He makes me feel happy, but if I am not happy with myself, he cannot do that for me (thanks a lot sayang).
Luckily, my kiddies make me happy, but if I am not alright with myself and within myself, I cannot fully appreciate their efforts.
Every day, I’ll try my best to make myself happy. I find ways to find the silver lining in difficult situations.
I am finding the good or the lesson in the difficulty. Nothing happens without a reason.
As my dear hubby, I thank him for making me the strong survivor I am today *Insya-Allah*.
Alhamdulillah, my kiddies have learned resilience and courage from both of us. They’ve also found it in themselves. They probably wouldn’t have learned those important life lessons if nothing negative was ever said or where nothing positive was learned about courage, determination, love and happiness by overcoming adversity.
Tadaa~ A white gold diamond ring for me >_<
Happy fingers? I bet! *lol*
Candid picture of me last Wednesday (this is me in my super-busy-day!):
I have an appointment with the owner of BabySigns Malaysia, Miss Jamie at KL.
This picture taken by the King while he helping me to buckle seat belt for my 3 other kids *I am chaotic, rite? I know, lol!* 😀
I do strongly think the mother needs to bend over backwards. Every woman is a super woman!
- Whose job is it to make a good home if not the mother?
- Who needed to reproduce more than the mother?
- Who should want to keep her family together and her children happy more than the mother?
Don’t aim for perfection, strive for blessedness.
If the mother learns and then demonstrates that giving can make a person feel happy, *then* she might have children who are also generous and kind.
If the mother acts negatively, she will have children who are confused and needy and resentful.
Camwhore with my new ring ^-^
To any husband out there: don’t forget to reward your wife as a great wife will always be a great mother, Insya-Allah 😉
Keep on positive momentum mommies
Let us try to endeavor the best for God, husband and kids.
May Allah swt always bless & help you. Amin~
Gambatte ne! *cuddles*