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Old 23rd October 2008, 02:16 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Salam semua.

Saya ada sorang anak lelaki, umur dah 5 tahun. Tapi yang saya pening kepala, ialah pasal dia takut sangat kalau duduk sorang diri tanpa ditemani kat rumah. contohnya kalau saya turun kat dapur untuk cuci kain atau masak, dia tidak boleh duduk sorang kat atas kerana katanya dia takut. Padahal my son ni sebenarnya sangat aktif dan lasak. So saya nak minta pandangan mama-mama semua tips bagaimana nak hilangkan perasaan takut my son tu.
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Old 9th January 2009, 06:52 PM   #2 (permalink)
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miemir,

suggestion sayalah.... find out dulu ur son takut pd apa. sebab gelap ke, hantu ke, orang jahat ke....

kalau takut pada hantu, elakkan tengok cerita seram. elakkan juga perbuatan menakut2kan anak dengan momokan hantu etc. maybe ada individu di persekitaran yg suka menakut2kan anak miemir kot.... :-)
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Salam mommies,

Pendapat saya, selalu juga ceritakan tentang keberanian, katun pon xpe, asalkan dia dapat imagine if dia berani, dia orang yang kuat.

benar kata nelcyndana, anak akan takut jika selalu ditakut-takutkan. Cuba sediakan anak suasana dan tempat yang selamat. sebelum pegi mana-mana untuk tinggalkan dia, inform dulu anak supaya dia appriciate dan dia tahu apa dia nak buat. Bukan dia akan rasa ditinggalkan dan langsung terkejut dengan keadaan tu...

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stuju dgn nyl....
kena tau aper yg anak ni takutkn.kalo dh tau,baru kita bleh cari jln pyelesaian.
bdk2 ni kalo skali kita takutkn contohnya hantu,nti smpi bila2 pun dorg ttp igt.
dr segi psikologinya mmg x bagus utk pkembangan anak.
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PERTAMA : after mengetahui apa jua ketakutan nyer, awak kena advice dia accordingly. yakin kan dia bahawa 'benda' tu tak benar... tak betul... tak wujud... khayalan semata-mata.

KEDUA : Allah sentiasa ada menjaga dia 24 jam. apa jua, mesti doa kpd Allah yg Maha Mendengar... suruh dia doa minta Allah tolong kalau dia takut.

KETIGA : awak kena la tanamkan perlahan-lahan dan buat diri dia yakin bahawa... dia lelaki, kena kuat + berani. boleh jaga ibu. apa jua yg dtg, dia boleh kalahkan... terpaksalah beri contoh idol kanak-kanak - superman, spiderman, batman.... etc... semuanya lelaki yg tak kenal ketakutan.

bila dia yakin sesuatu tu tak betul, dia doa pd Allah & berani... slowly dia akan berubah. may b ambil masa. but berbaloi mencuba...

adik bongsu saya skarang umur 12 thn. penakut nya memang tahap maksima... but, camtu la kami ajar dia. darjah 3 barulah dia tidur bilik sendiri... lambat sebab dia ni anak manja... but, ok la kan ? sekarang ni setakat suruh dok rumah bila mak abah saya ada hal, dia ok jer main ps2. ngantuk, tidur sendiri... ok la tu.


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Salam...semua...Saya ahli baru kat sini..Saya pun pening sekarang ni..anak terlalu takut....pendek kata mana2 yg dia nak pergi saya kena temankan.. Ada tak cara2 nak hilangkan skit perasaan takut dia..
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rahaAisy... da cuba lom suggestion saya & kawan2 di atas?
sometimes, kanak-kanak memang penakut.
maklum la, dia masih kecil... dan kebiasaannya imagine macam2.
kita yg dewasa ni pun, still ada ketakutan juga, kan?
he he he...
pendekatan kena realistik... logik... lembut... jgn paksa.
biar anak selesa, tenang & fikiran dia sedia menerima.
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