
December 2007 Update
Post by MamaFiza on December 11, 2007
Moshi-moshi
Good morning everyone. Wish ya all the best!
For the last 2 days my hubby had setup new design template for our home school blog *thank you so much dearie, great job!*
And yesterday, I had been fixing all the bugs issues as states by most of our loyal blog readers recently. *thank you, hugs*
Today; tadaa, I’m back for blogging, Alhamdulillah *cheers*
Next week, we will celebrating AidilAdha *for Muslims*. Love it!
My mum & dad can hardly celebrate this special day together with us due to they were in Mecca, Saudi Arabia for Hajj.
May Allah swt blessed & reward the best for them. Amin~ *miss ‘em*

Inner beauty!
As usual, my siblings will join me gather at my lovely grandma‘s house in Bandar Baru Bangi, Selangor. Except; this time without our beloved parent
Truly, I miss my mummy [MIL] in Johor Bahru, Johor. It has been such a long time, I do miss it!
Confession: Didn’t like the term of MIL; Mother In Law, at all because it looks “alienate“. In Islam, MIL is same like our own mother, rite?
It will be end of the year soon, both lil KiruaMi-cHan and lil ReiHi-cHan was so enthusiast about Christmas decoration.
- They fancy the color and frippery. Insya-Allah, will bring them to check out the scene at KL malls during this weekend.
- As for me, teaching them to respect different culture, religion and race in our appealing country is a must. *Insya-Allah*
Update for latest innovation; my delight of Robot-tech. The birth of; Twendy-One!
Click here for more info and videos.

A human symbiotic robots that can support human daily activities!
Oh yes, I do love Honda’s ASIMO , they were the ultimate awesome *yatta*
Got to go now.
Please do take care of your health; mentally & physically. God bless! Amin~

How to Get Enough Sleep with a Newborn
Post by MamaFiza on December 7, 2007
What new parents need more than almost anything else is sleep. *believe me!*
It is definitely a challenge to get enough sleep while taking care of a newborn, but it can be done.
As for me, getting quality time for sleep is very crucial to develop positive thinking mum. *Insya-Allah*
Things You’ll Need:
* Baby Bathtubs
* Baby Blankets
- Step 1:
Make a big sign for your door that says, “Mother and baby are sleeping! Please do not knock or ring unless we are expecting you!“
- Step 2:
Leave the sign up for as long as you like it works.
- Step 3:
Turn off the ringer on the handphone/telephone and let the machine answer all calls. Return calls when you feel like it. People will understand. *That’s why I don’t have a personal phone, yay*
- Step 4:
Nap when your baby naps. Try to resist the urge to do dishes and housework instead.
- Step 5:
Share sleep with, or sleep near, your baby. With the right safety precautions, this can mean a good night’s sleep for everyone.
- Step 6:
Accept all offers of help from your husband. Let them come over and do a load of laundry, or even cook a family meal, while you sleep.
*You just gave birth to his son/daughter, so it is time for you to be a lil princess, rite? But don’t overdo it !
Remember to use words of “please” & “thank you” together with his sweet name such as “darling“, “cutie pie“, “my hero” or, whatever suit the best*
- Step 7:
Keep the room quiet and dark if you get up for night feedings. This will help your baby understand that nighttime is for sleeping, not playing.
- Step 8:
Take a warm bath with your baby a couple of hours before bedtime. This will relax both of you and prepare you for a good night’s sleep.
Alert:
- Keep your baby warm, but not too warm, at night. If you are sharing sleep with your baby, he should be dressed more lightly than babies who sleep alone.
- If you are breast-feeding, work on the side-lying nursing position as soon as possible. This will allow you to sleep or catnap while you nurse.
- If you are breast-feeding, remember that breast milk is digested quickly. Because your baby is processing his meals so efficiently, he may need to eat a number of times during the night.
- In the middle of the night, when it seems that your baby has been up every half-hour, repeat to yourself, “This too shall pass,” and remain calm.
- Avoid letting your newborn cry at night. New babies need to eat frequently – and be comforted just as frequently.
- Avoid falling asleep on a couch with your baby. It creates the risk of falling and/or suffocation.
- If your baby is in your bed, make sure you have taken all the necessary safety precautions.
- If you are bottle-feeding breast milk, resist the temptation to give your baby an extra-large meal before bedtime. It won’t help him sleep longer and may actually upset his digestion.
- Burp baby well – Even if you have to wake baby after a feed to burp, it will be well worth your while. The baby will usually wake again soon anyway (which also means you!) so by taking the time to do it properly the first time you and baby will get a much longer sleep.
Hope those tips could cherish your relationship between your newborn and beloved husband
Please take care of your health *tataa*

How to get your Baby on a Timetable
Post by MamaFiza on December 7, 2007
Ever wonder on how you could get your bundle of joy on a ritualistic schedule you can work around day and night?
What is your goal? Much needed sleep, a secure and happy child.
Remember: to grow a healthy baby involve a healthy mom!

*Alhamdulillah* I have 3 children, so I have had plenty of practice at this
Below are some tips that I had discovered in my journey of nurturing my kiddies plus knowledge from the miracle of Internet:
Things You’ll Need:
- dedication
- 1 bundle of joy or multiple
- diapers
- lotion
- bottle
- breast
- washcloth and/or warm bath
- lots of love
- lots of patience
Step 1: Bedtime Diagnosis
The first thing you’ll need to know about babies is once they are born they really seem confused.
To get them on a schedule is an easy task but it does take dedication from you the parents.
Sometimes if you really try to write everything down, feeding times, fussy times, bowel movements, the whole 9 yards, it still doesn’t make any sense.
The main thing to focus on is bedtime in the beginning for your baby.
Instead of writing all of this down, jot down what you think might be his/her bedtime. What time does your baby go to sleep, in the evening, and sleep for several hours?
Let’s say he/she falls asleep at 6:30pm and sleeps until 8pm. Then use 6:30pm as the bedtime….this is the secret!!!
Step 2: Work It
So if its 6:30pm each evening and you see this pattern, then use this time to your advantage.
As I said, you have to be dedicated and clear your personal time to allow for things to fall into place.
What you do next is, ok, you pick 6:30pm each evening, now what you do is at about 6:00pm you start getting him/her ready for bed.
You either do a warm bath or wash the baby off with a warm wash cloth, hands and face, etc.
Change the baby’s diaper and I usually use a small amount of powder for dryness.
Then you can do baby lotion *my kiddies love massage routine* and last, pajamas.
This in total should not take you more than 30 minutes. *yay*
Step 3: Breastfeed Your Baby
Lastly, you can feed the baby his/her bottle of breast milk or breastfeed, whichever you are doing.
Finally you can put the baby down for its nap.
How does this get the baby on a schedule you ask? Easy!
It works because by being persistent and establishing a bedtime you have just started creating security in the life of your new child.
The baby now knows, “when I get my bath, and jammies and my tummy full, I go to bed“. The baby learns what to expect and when to expect it, this provides security for him/her.
You will see the baby getting very unhappy if things go off schedule for a day or so, which is normal for them.
Next, this will lead to the baby establishing a wakeup time and at that point you can give him/her the first feeding of the day or breakfast(cereal/fruit).
Finally, you will further see some additional patterns as the baby starts to get a little older that will indicate, ok, at this time he/she is hungry and this could be a good time to establish the lunchtime.
Same goes for the napping, you will see two naps usually for babies, one in the morning after breakfast and one in the late afternoon following lunchtime.
Alert:
* The main objective here is consistently focus on bedtime and getting ready at the same time every evening. This starts the process, and soon you will be able to predict your baby’s every need, grunt, cry, or wimper. So getting them on a schedule is one piece at a time and eventually it falls into place.
Best of luck mommies
Never give up! *daaa*

Ways of Raising Happy Baby
Post by MamaFiza on December 6, 2007
As for me, teaching my own child to be happy and appreciate it, is one of the greatest gifts to me as a parent. *Alhamdulillah*
Please do memorize that your baby and toddler won’t find happiness through movies, television or other aspects of pop culture.
Don’t you ever replace happiness with material. *please*

Koko Crunch’s Buddies
Happiness comes from within and it’s about learning to love the person that you were created to be.
Once your child learns this lesson, he’ll carry it with him for the rest of his life. *Insya-Allah*
Let play a part in it:
- Step 1: Aim for Blissfulness
Set goals for your child. These goals should be challenging and should require effort on your child’s behalf. But they should be goals that your child can achieve. Once your child successfully meets this goal, he’ll have a better self confidence and a better understanding of true happiness.
- Step 2: Be Optimistic
Point out the positive. This is a sure way to build your child’s confident and help her be happy. And even more important than the pat on the back is why you’re praising your child. That’s encouragement for her to do it again.
- Step 3: Praise Good Words
Choose praise words that set high standards, but not too high. Words like “perfect” and “super” are OK, but they can often set standards that are unobtainable. Instead phrases like “hard worker” and “smart” set expectations that are well within your child’s reach.
- Step 4: Remedy
Allow your child to correct mistakes. The true test is how to handle it. Equip your child with the right attitude, and he’ll be a better person for it. *Insya-Allah, Amin~* He’ll feel happy with the outcome when he’s corrected the situation himself.
- Step 5: Role Model
Find positive role models for your child. As parents, you should definitely be an example to your child. But she should also be able to look outside the home and find people who support her. And some kids, especially teenagers, feel more comfortable talking to someone other than a parent. If you already have a support network in place, you can feel confident your teen is getting the right information and she’s growing into the person you know she can be.
- Step 6: Stop Tittle-Tattle
Discuss behavioral difficulties about your child when he’s not around. Hearing a conversation about himself can tear down his self esteem and will lead to unhappiness.
Please do recall:
“You have your husband/wife, your family, your job, your friends, your lover, and tons of entertainment to think about and love, but your baby only have YOU.
So what are you waiting for? Start passing your love to your sweet baby, today *cheers*


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