Green With Envy

Post by MamaFiza on December 28, 2006 

Loving Family
Loving Family

 

Honestly, I am totally anxious of this circumstances will happen to my first baby when my second baby arrives in the family.

It is about the overcoming jealousy in my child.

I started to think about this matter on the first day I had missed my period.

I have been with KiruaMi-cHan exclusively for 14 months; showered him with full love and almost everything!

90% of my daily routine is dedicate to him.

How should I told him that he will get a new sibling?

Maybe soon he will think that someone will replace his place in my heart?

Oh God, I am totally down with this matter.

I told my hubby, I can’t sleep well due to this problem.

He just so positively believe in me that I could be the great mother for this family, but deep inside my heart I keep asking myself; Could I?

My hubby presumed me to take extra rest and just think it in positive way (Oh, I wish this will be easy!) and he is willing to help me through this whatever happen.

I am truly grateful to my hubby for lending me a shoulder to cry on every single time I had bad feelings within me.

The next day, I try to note down some creative ideas that I consider it could be the solution plus I seek to find out some tips from books and the Internet.

Alhamdulillah, I had an endeavor out those tips and till today I still pin it in my heart to my little toddler and myself.

It’s really makes me happy when every time I saw my little toddler really take great care of his little sister and always says:
Don’t disturb her, I love my sister, “Go away!“, “No punish sister. I love!“.

When he use the word of “love“, I felt so touched by how a small toddler could describe love even nowadays the adult were lack of appreciating love.

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I like to read about this topic from Dr. Goh Chee Leong, the Director of HELP’s Centre for Psychology.

Below are some tips how to help your older child deal with the jealousy they may suffer towards their younger sibling:

Insya-Allah, may Allah s.w.t give us the strengths to do the best to our beloved family. Amin~

Happy 1st B-Day!

Post by MamaFiza on December 28, 2006 

 

Happy 1st Birthday to our lil princess ReiHi-cHan on 28th December 2006!

May Allah swt blessed her with flying colors. Amin~

Whizkid

 

Your Baby & Toddler from Birth to 3 Years

Post by MamaFiza on December 6, 2006 

Your Baby & Toddler By: Johnson’s
Type: Paperback | 183 x 235mm | 248 pages

About:”Packed full of information and pictures covering a wide range ofchildhood issues” Junior magazine.

Enjoy life with your child as you learn about their progress and behaviour with guidance and advice on common concerns from paediatricians, child psychologists and health professionals.

Bringing together Johnson’s, the most trusted name in babycare, and DK, one of the most respected childcare publishers has resulted in a down to earth approach that guides you through your child’s development during their first 3 years of childhood.

Full of great suggestions for toys and activities that will stimulate and nurture your child, this guide gives you the information you need to get the most from these vital early years.

Ulasan:
Buku ini paling saya gemari kerana dengan hanya 1 buku ini, saya dapat memahami keperluan bayi dan anak-anak saya dari umur 1 hari hingga 3 tahun. Ringkas, mudah, padat dengan informasi serta sangat berkualiti.

Hasil kajian Pakar Kanak-Kanak iaitu Johnson’s yang semestinya dipercayai oleh ibu-ibu di serata dunia. Kos yang perlu saya keluarkan untuk bahan bacaan ini sangat berbaloi dengan ilmu yang ada di dalamnya kerana ianya hanya seperti saya berbelanja sebanyak RM 30.00 setahun untuk anak saya hingga anak berumur 3 tahun (RM 30.00 x 3 tahun = RM 90.00)



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